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10 Tips from Ballarat Family Lawyers that can help your kids during Divorce

 

A parent's primary concern is for his or her child’s welfare and safety, especially after going through the divorce process. Studies have shown that the majority of children going through the divorce procedure would be able to cope with the separation after a year, however, in some cases, it does not happen. So, what can you do as a parent to support your children during this difficult situation without damaging their future?

 

Anyone who has been through a divorce would always tell you to remove your kids from situations where there are conflicts, but it is also vital to show genuine respect and support to the other parent in front of your children. You are probably thinking that it is easier said than done. Well, you are right. That is why we've put together some tips that can assist you if you are in this situation.

 

  1. Both parents should talk with their children and reassure them that they will always be loved no matter what's the situation is or will become and that there is no one to blame for it.
  2. Never, and I say NEVER talk about your own anxiety and uncertainty over your separation problems to your children or in front of them. Your main goal should be to let your kids grow up normally without distress from both parents.
  3. Do not argue or fight in front of your children. You don’t want them to hear you both screaming at each other.
  4. Even if both parents are now separated, show a united front to your children. Be supportive of your ex-partner even if you have gone separate ways.
  5. Anger, may it be towards your ex-partner or the situation happening, must be dealt with appropriately. It is best to seek help through professional counselling or talk to a trusted friend to deal with how you are feeling.
  6. Being separated does not make either one of you useless to your kids. Be the best parent to them whenever or however you can be. Be emotionally available to them.
  7. Be in charge of your own emotional and mental well-being as it will definitely display itself and your kids will surely see too.
  8. It is always best to keep people your kids care about in their lives, like for example in-laws, even if they take your ex’s side. Explain to them how important they are to your children and that you do not want that to be ruined.
  9. Be thoughtful about your children meeting the people you might be dating. Take a lot of time before introducing a new partner and remember it’s unusual for children to like a person they see as replacing their Mum or Dad. As a rule, be thoughtful always. Always.
  10. Finally, separation can take its toll financially on you and your kids and it is your job to let them understand this and that you will keep financing their needs whatever it takes.


A divorce is a difficult time for both parties involved but even more so for children. Take the time to consider what your children are going through during this stressful time. To help you get through this situation, speak to one of our family lawyers in Ballarat, they will do everything they can to help make your divorce process as smooth and easy as possible for you and your children.

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